WHY WOMEN CRY " ~ MUST READ AND SHARE.
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A little boy asked his mother, " Why are you crying?" " Because I'm a woman, " she told him.
"I don't understand," he said. His mum just hugged him and said " And you will never will".
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Later the little boy asked his father, "Why does mum seem to cry for no reason?" "All women cry for no reason," was all his dad could say.
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The little boy grew up and became a man, still wondering why women cry.
Finally he put in a call to God. When God got to the phone, he asked, "God, why do women cry so easily?"
God said, "When I made the woman she had to be special.
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I made her shoulders strong enough to carry the weight of the world, yet gentle enough to give comfort.
I give her inner strength to endure childbirth and the rejection that many times come from her children.
I gave her a hardness that allows her to keep going when everyone else gives up, and take care of her family through sickness and fatigue without complaining.
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I gave her the sensitivity to love her children under any circumstances, even when her child has hurt her very badly.
I gave her strength to carry her husband through his faults and fashioned her from his rib to protect his heart.
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I gave her wisdom to know that a good husband never hurts his wife, but sometimes tests her strengths and her resolve to stand beside him unfalteringly.
And finally, I gave her tears to shed.
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This is hers exclusively to use whenever it is needed.
"You see my son," said God, "The beauty of a woman is not in the clothes she wears, the figure that she carries, or he way she combs her hair.
The beauty of a woman must be seen in her eyes, because that is the doorway to her heart - the place where love resides.
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RESPECT WOMEN.

The Story of an EAGLE
The Eagle has the longest life-span of its species. It can live upto 70 years.
But to reach this age, the eagle must make a very difficult decision!
In its 40th year, the eagle's long and flexible Talons can no longer grab a prey which serves as food.
Its long and sharp beak becomes bent.


Its old-aged and heavy wings, due to their thick feathers, stick to its chest and make it difficult to fly.
Then, the eagle is left with only two options: DIE or go through a painful process of CHANGE! This process lasts for 150 days (5 months)
the process requires the eagle to fly to a mountain top and sit on its nest. There the eagle knocks its beak against a rock until it plucks it out.




Then the eagle will wait for the new beak to grow back after which it will pluck out its talons. When its talons grow back, the eagle starts plucking its old aged feathers.
And after this the eagle takes its famous flight of rebirth and LIVES for 30 more years!!
Why is Change needed??? In order to survive and live.

We too have to start the change process.
We sometimes need to get rid of the unpleasant old memories, negative habits and our fixed mind set. Only Freed from the past burdens can we take advantage of the present.
If an eagle can make a life saving and life changing decision at the age of 40....why can't we?
In order to take on a New Journey ahead, let go of your negative old limiting beliefs. Open up your mind and let yourself fly high like an eagle!



When it rains, all birds occupy shelter.
But the EAGLE avoids the rain by flying above the clouds....problem is common to all but the attitude to solve it makes the difference!
Don't be afraid of change...accept it gracefully!

A philosophy professor stood before his class with some items on the table in front of him. When the class began, wordlessly he picked up a very large and empty mayonnaise jar and proceeded to fill it with rocks, about 2 inches in diameter.


He then asked the students if the jar was full. They agreed that it was. So the professor then picked up a box of pebbles and poured them into the jar. He shook the jar lightly. The pebbles, of course, rolled into the open areas between the rocks.
He then asked the students again if the jar was full. They agreed it was. The professor picked up a box of sand and poured it into the jar. Of course, the sand filled up everything else.
He then asked once more if the jar was full.
The students responded with a unanimous
“Yes.”



“Now,” said the professor, “I want you to recognize that this jar represents your life. The rocks are the important things – your family, your partner, your health, your children – things that if everything else was lost and only they remained, your life would still be full.
The pebbles are the other things that matter
– like your job, your house, your car.



The sand is everything else. The small stuff.”
“If you put the sand into the jar first,” he continued “there is no room for the pebbles or the rocks. The same goes for your life. If you spend all your time and energy on the
small stuff, you will never have room for the things that are important to you. Pay attention to the things that are critical to your happiness. Play with your children.



Take your partner out dancing.
There will always be time to go to work, clean the house, give a dinner party and fix the disposal.
Take care of the rocks first – the things that really matter. Set your priorities. The rest is just sand.”

***UNDERSTANDING LIFE***
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=To Understand Life, you have to Visit these
Three Locations:
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1.) The Hospital,
2.) The Prison and
3.) The Cemetery
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=At the Hospital, you will understand
that nothing is more beautiful than health.
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=In Prison, you'll see that freedom is
the most precious thing.
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=At the Cemetery you will realize that
life is worth nothing, the ground we walk today
will be our roof tomorrow.
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=Let us therefore remain humble by having the
fear of God and respect for our neighbors; may
the Grace and Mercy of God follow us everyday.
"Amen."

SINGLE LADIES, HOW PREPARE ARE YOU.
We all know, that Faith without work is dead,so married without planning is dead also. So Singles Ladies that are preparing for marriage, should get a regular source of income before marriage. Marriage is not just about sex, kissing or romance! Bill must be paid. Pampers must be bought. School fee must be paid. And Your landlord will collect his rent.


The wife to be should also get something doing to support her husband! No man wants to marry a liability. If nobody employs you please employ yourself before your wedding. Discover and Develop Your Talent.
Don't depend on people to be responsible for your financial needs after your wedding. Your family, friends, and loved ones may sponsor your wedding but they can't sponsor your marriage.
Take it or leave it, There can be no real romance without finance. Financial hardship can turn lovers to sworn enemies!


But Don't wait until you have the whole world before planning for your marriage. You can start with a room if you can't afford a room and parlor for now! As time goes on, God will expand both of you! Start With What You Have! Don't wait until you have million of dollars in your account!
finally Most Ladies think that going into a married is a beautiful box full of all the things they have longed for.


The truth is that, married at the start is an empty box. You must put something in before you can take anything out. Love is in people. Both must learn the art and form the habit of giving, loving, serving, praising, keeping the box full. If you take more than you put in, the box will be empty. So put the devil to shame and start planning,physical,spiritual this year for your marriage and God will supply and provide all your need in Jesus name!

Amen.

TOUCHING STORY
A man wanted to get married, but he didn't know whom to marry. So he prayed to God that God should open his eyes or should reveal to him whom to marry.
After the prayer, God showed him a poor blind woman in his church, and told him to marry the blind woman. The man refused and still went back to God in prayers, he prayed for many times, and after the prayer, God still reveal the blind woman to him as his wife.
So he had no other option than to marry the woman, they fixed a date for their wedding, so it happens that on the day of their wedding, behold! The eyes of the woman opened and she began to see, everybody was happy and some were surprised,
and from that day, the spirit of blindness was rolled away from the life of that woman.

Note: God knows why he kept you in the condition or in the position you are right now. The enemy can stand against your success, but when God remember you, no demon can stop you. I pray that before the end of this month God will do a new miracle that will attract blessings in your life.

PRICELESS STONE - Inspirational Short Story.
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One day a young boy asks his father what is the
value of his life. Instead of answering a father
told his son to take this rock and go sell it at a
market. If anybody asks the price raise two
fingers and don't say anything.
The boy then went to the market and a woman
ask “how much is this rock, I want to put it in my
garden?”
The boy didn't say anything and raised up two
fingers and the woman said $2? I'll take it!
And the boy went home and told his father a
woman wants to buy this rock for $2.
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The father them said so I don't want you to take
this rock to a museum if anybody wants to buy it
don't say a word and just put up two fingers. The
boy then went to the museum and a man wanted
to buy the rock. The boy didn't say a word and
just put up two fingers and the man said $200?
I'll take it!
The boy was shocked and went running home and
told his father a man wants to buy this rock for $
200!
His father then said, son, the last place I want
you to take this rock is to a precious stone store.
Show it to the owner and don't say a word and if
he asks the price just put up two fingers.
The son then went to a precious stone store. He
showed the rock to the owner. Where did you find
this Stone! It is one of the rarest stones in the
world! I must have it! How much would you sell it
for? The boy put up two fingers and the man said
I'll take it for $200,000!
The boy not knowing what to say ran at home to
his father.
Father, there's a man that wants to buy the stone
for $200,000! His father said, “son do you know
the value of your life now?”
You see… it doesn't matter where you come from,
where you're born, the color of your skin, or how
much money you were born into. It matters where
you decide to place yourself, the people you
surround yourself with and how you choose to
carry yourself.
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You may have lived your whole life thinking that
you were a $2 stone. You may have lived your
whole life surrounded by people that saw your
worth for only $2.
But everybody has a diamond inside them. And
we can choose to surround ourself with people
that see our value and see the diamond inside of
us. You can choose to put yourself in a market or
put yourself in a precious stone store.
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And you
can also choose to see the value in other people.
You can help other people see the diamond inside
of them. Choose the people you surround yourself
wisely. That can make all the difference in your
life.
I love you all and I wish you all the best.

When you wait for something you really need then
know that you are not waiting alone, God is
waiting with you. If you feel impatient, God wants
you to know that something greater is being
prepared for you. If things are becoming negative
contrary to what you prayed for, then know that
God is preparing something better for you.
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A man only knows what he wants but God knows
what you really need and He knows when you
need it. If you feel impatient, God wants you to
know that something greater is being prepared for
you. If things are becoming negative contrary to
what you prayed for, then know that God is
preparing something better for you.
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A man only
knows what he wants but God knows what you
really need and He knows when you need it.
Ibrahim was just about to kill his only son but
God intervened and provided a ram of sacrifice.
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There is no way to make it so that absolutely
zero negative things will happen to you in life, but
you do have a choice in what you will allow to
affect you. Decide to protect your mind from the
negative influences of the outside world. Be wary
of the poisonous attitudes and stresses that are
flying above your head… do not let them land.
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The same God who feeds the sparrow also feeds
the elephant, the same God who feeds the fish
also feeds the whale. The God who clothes and
beautifies the flowers of the field is the same God
who clothes the galaxies with glory.
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There is no
big need that God cannot meet in our life and
there is no small need that can escape His
attention. God is meeting all our needs and taking
care of our burdens!